You can make a lot of mistakes while naming your child. The excitement of a baby being born can be overwhelming. Make sure you keep in mind the following points before naming your child

Believing that the popular — and inventive — names you had as a kid still have the same prestige.

Name preferences have shifted dramatically in the last decade or so. Goodbye, Jessica and Josh; hello, Layla and Serenity, Landon and Tristan, all of whom are in the top 100.

Assuming that the rules of the playground are the same as they were when you were a kid.

Children are no longer teased because they have names that are unusual, androgynous, foreign, or difficult to pronounce or spell. Rather, the variety of names is praised.

It’s not a good idea to choose a name you like just because it’s “popular.” What does it matter? Do you have feelings for Michael, Emma, Olivia, or Noah? Make use of it! When you call it out in the park, you might get a few looks, but so what? Consider a distinctive middle name if you choose a popular name. If you summon Michael Zappa, fewer heads will turn. Hmm. Will they, or will they not?

You’re passing on a great baby name because it’s “strange” or “odd.” Do you think Gwyneth Paltrow was bothered if someone mistook her name for Apple? Go for it if you notice something that won’t have to be censored, require a court date, or be explained (too much!) when your child starts school. In any case, being distinctive is the name of the game these days.

Giving your parents too much influence over the baby’s name.

Baby names can be a fascinating topic of discussion in the family. The person who changes the diapers at 3 a.m., on the other hand, gets to name the child.

Holding on to the name you always vowed you’d give your firstborn.

A lot of individuals, especially girls, spend their childhoods coming up with imaginative names for their children. However, if the name you’ve always adored has suddenly become extremely popular or clashes with your new surname, you should drop it.

Keeping it simple with the middle names. Ann, Lynn, Marie, James, Robert, and David are among names that come to mind. When you hear a child’s complete name (typically when they’re in trouble), the same names tend to come up again and again. Because middle names aren’t commonly used, why not have some fun with it, especially if your first name isn’t particularly unique. Donna Delilah is a far more intriguing character than Donna Lynn. Think about a middle name that means a lot to you. Rugby, Robert? Do you know who Mary Marigold is? Is Johnathon Zombie a real person? Remember that most forms only require the middle initial.

Being overly concerned with how cool your chosen name makes you appear.

Sure, pregnancy is more fashionable these days, thanks to gorgeous outfits and famous role models. But prioritising a name’s hip ness over all others isn’t going to make life easier for Bronx.

First-time parents are likely to consider their first child’s name, but naming Baby No. 1 Tallulah effectively eliminates Lula, Lila, Delilah, Sula, Tally, and possibly even Louis as names for later children.

Unless you genuinely want to know, don’t ask friends and relatives for advice. Proceed. Cautiously. When it comes to baby names, friends and family members are usually pretty candid. Don’t ask their input on name selections or even what they think about your preferred name if you really adore it and have already decided on it. “This is the name we chose,” say when the time comes. It’s fantastic!”

Because a friend or family member despises your beloved name, cross it off the list. As already said.

Not doing some preliminary investigation to see what’s available. You might have been planning on naming your baby girl Amber since you were ten years old.

Ignoring the fact that on the other side of the naming decision will be a real live baby… and youngster… and, eventually, grownup.

We understand if it appears that your pregnancy is all about you. When a real baby appears in the delivery room, she often comes as a shock, demanding her own wants and personality right away. When choosing the name she’ll have for the rest of her life, keep that little (and eventually huge) person in mind.

There’s certainly nothing more stressful than attempting to come up with the perfect name for your child. There’s a lot at risk, from trying to find something classy without following the herd to picking something exceptional.

Naming a child is a BIG deal

If the name sounds more unusual than typical, you run the danger of receiving a slew of negative feedback. More importantly, naming a child is significant because it becomes an inextricable part of his or her identity, and you don’t want to be the parent who gives your child a name that embarrasses him or her.

Is the name the same as your surname?

Yes, as strange as it may sound, ensuring that the name you choose for your child is compatible with your surname is crucial. You don’t want your child to end up with an unusual combo that makes him the target of everyone’s ridicule.

Will it be appropriate for the youngster when he or she grows older?

Keep in mind that you are naming both a baby and an adult. So, to be sure your child doesn’t end up with a name that sounds too childish in adulthood, envision calling him or her by that name throughout his or her life. Drop it if it comes out as immature at any point.

Is it going to be a nice nickname?

Many names lend themselves to even sweeter nicknames, but some can be downright comical. So, as you’re trying to come up with the right name, look for terms that rhyme with it. If those words don’t make you grin, you can bet your child will regret it in middle school.

In fact, if the abbreviated version of the name does not appeal to you, you may want to avoid it entirely.

• Is the name too well-known?

We strongly advise you to Google the name to see how popular it is. After all, you don’t want your child to be saddled with a name that five other students in the class already have.

• Is it a simple word to say?

This is the most difficult aspect. Even if you think you’ve chosen THE name for your child, test it out on a few family members or friends to check whether they can pronounce it correctly. After all, nothing irritates you more than people consistently mispronouncing your child’s name.

• Will your youngster have confidence in the name? 10/10

Last but not least, consider your child’s perspective and how he or she might feel while conversing with others and making an introduction. It is your obligation as a parent to avoid names that can be turned into jokes or puns.